NEXT STEPS AFTER COURT APPROVAL
Anything that needs to be changed can be changed by showing a certified copy of the judge-signed Judgment (also known as an Order) for legal name change. We have listed documents that may need to be changed based on lived experiences. Some of them, we have given specific instructions on how to get the documents and gender marker changed.
You can use our Post Name Change Checklist to help you keep track of your progress!
Birth Certificate
Birth certificates are frequently used as a document to prove age and identity, so it is important your birth certificate reflects your name. You also need the birth certificate in order to get the "Real" ID. We believe that in the coming years everyone will need a "Real" ID to vote in future elections, enter some government buildings, and board airplanes.
The birth certificate can be updated in person or by mail.
You will need:
Certified Court Order/Judgment granting the name change
Any pedigree information you know, such as parents' names and your city of birth OR a valid ID.
Application for Certified Copy of a Birth Record
Next, head into the Department of Vital Records and present your documentation while stating you need to make an amendment to your birth certificate due to a name change.
For Missouri birth records, you will have to mail your court order with an application for a copy of your birth certificate, as well as a payment for processing fees. (Missouri Vital Records charges $15 to process a court order, on top of the $15 fee to get a copy of your new birth certificate. If you are submitting more than one court order at a time, for example a separate name change order and gender marker change order, then you will have to submit *$15 PER ORDER*.)
Missouri and STL: Everyone in the state of Missouri is entitled to a free birth record from any state for the purposes of getting their ID to vote. You get this once in your lifetime. For transparency and warning, it is reported to the Missouri State Department once used. To take advantage of this, you may email VitalRecordsInfo@health.mo.gov or call (573) 751-6387. You may also fill out their online form.
St. Louis City/County: If you cannot afford the $15 for the birth certificate copy, there are resources in St. Louis City that can help that process. This would not be reported to the Missouri State Department.
In that case, send your court order into the state. Thereafter, reach out to our team to get a voucher for St. Louis City's vital records.
Additional Help
For people in Missouri who need additional help paying for a birth certificate or navigating the processes to obtain an out-of-state birth certificate, we recommend you reach out to our FREE partner organizations in the Missouri State ID Access Coalition. Go to their website and click "Get ID Help" in the menu for a list of ID programs by city.
Marriage License and Real Estate Deeds
If you were already married before your changed your legal name through a court order/judgment, you may want to update your name on your existing Marriage License, although this might not be necessary for everyone.
If you already owned Real Estate (house/land/etc.) when you changed your name, you should update your name on your Deed or Title documents.
Marriage Licenses and Real Estate Deeds are typically controlled by each county's Recorder of Deeds.
Generally, to update your Marriage License, you should contact the Recorder of Deeds for the county in which you physically got married.
Generally, to update your Real Estate Deeds, you should contact the Recorder of Deeds for the county in which the land is physically located.
Updating records with the Recorder of Deeds generally requires you to submit a signed and notarized Affidavit containing the details of the change that you wish to make to the records.
There is often a fee associated with recording these changes. (Approximately $15-$45)
You may also have to pay a small fee for them to search for the "Book" and "Page" number on which your existing records are recorded. If you can find the original version of the document in your records, that could save you the search fee.
You should be able to simply Google the relevant county's Recorder of Deeds website, find their office phone number, and call to ask them what they you need to do to update your legal name on the record.
If they do not offer you a standard form for an Affidavit, you can try this template Affidavit of Name Change.
Social Security Card
Updating your name on your Social Security Card is an important early step soon after your name change approval. The amended Social Security Card will be useful as a proof of age and secondary form of identification when working to update other aspects of your life.
You will need:
Court order stating the approval of your name change
Completed Form SS-5 found here.
pg 5 is used to state your changed name as it should appear on the card in correlation with your SSN
Current ID or Passport
Birth Certificate (if you do not present a passport)
Some offices allow correction and replacement requests to be completed by mail or online while others will require you to bring documentation in person. Contact your local Social Security office, which can be determined here.
The Social Security Administration's website has a tool to help you determine if you can complete the SSA's name change process entirely online. Answer the questionnaire here.
State ID or Driver's License
Once you get your name (and not your gender marker) changed through the court process, you can update your MO State ID/DL by bringing any of the following to the DMV:
Certified Court Order/Judgment
Amended Birth Certificate
Social Security Card (if it has already been changed)
If you cannot afford the cost of the State ID, there are resources to pay for State IDs in St. Louis City and Missouri.
Everyone who is eligible to vote in the State of Missouri is entitled by law to receive One Free ID to Vote.
Eligibility to vote is often mistranslated. If you are a US Citizen and NOT currently on probation or parole for a felony charge and you have NOT been convicted of a *voting-related* felony (infiltrating an election), you are probably eligible to vote in Missouri.
You do not need to actually vote to qualify for this program. You just need to be eligible to vote.
If this does not work for you, you can email us and we can connect you to resources that can help you access payments for the ID.
Additional Help
For people in Missouri who need additional help paying for a Missouri ID or navigating the processes to obtain a new Missouri ID, we recommend you reach out to our FREE partner organizations in the Missouri State ID Access Coalition. Go to their website and click "Get ID Help" in the menu for a list of ID programs by city.
Passport
Whether your passport is used for travel, identification, I-9 employment verification, or anything else, it is imperative that the passport reflects your name change. Important documents and steps are listed below.
If your passport was issued in the last year, you will need to complete, gather and mail the following documents:
Court order of name change approval
Form DS-5504 (found here)
Make sure you select the gender marker you are comfortable with, as the marker you select will be printed on the passport no matter what is listed on supporting documentation such as birth certificates and state IDs.
A recent color photo graph that follows requirements (found here)
Most recent passport
Mail these documents through USPS to :
National Passport Processing Center
P.O. Box 90107
Philadelphia, PA 19190-0107
If your passport was issued more than one year ago, you will need to complete, gather and mail the following documents:
Court order of name change approval
Form DS-82 (found here)
Most recent passport
A recent color photo graph that follows requirements (found here)
Fee amount based on the Passport Fee Calculator
Mail these documents to:
National Passport Processing Center
P.O. Box 90155
Philadelphia, PA 19190-0155
Employment/Career
Think of any website or documents you have marketed yourself and your skills.
Your current employer
LinkedIn
Personal Resume
Unions and Professional Groups
Business Cards
Governmental Agencies
There are several governmental agencies that will need to be contacted to update your name to ensure you receive proper service.
Department of Motor Vehicles
Car title, boat title, and other property titles and documents
To obtain an update title from the Department of Motor Vehicles you must bring the following documents into any MO License Office:
current title
court order of name change approval
completed Form 108 (found here)
fee of $14.50
Voter Registration
Post Office
Department of Human Services
SNAP
Financial Agencies
Think of any places you have open accounts, loans, debts, or assets you will need to access.
Checking accounts, checks, and bank cards
Savings and money market accounts, CDs
Credit cards
Assets such as property titles, deeds, and trusts
Debts such as mortgages and loans
Investment accounts
Housing
There are many moving parts to owning, renting, or staying in a home, all of which are likely linked to your name.
Home/Property Deeds
Home Owner's Associations
Landlords/Leasing Agencies
Home/Rental Insurance
Utilities
Electricity, Trash Collection, Water, Gas, Internet, etc.
Medical Care
Any type of medical care and records that may be used in the future could reflect or be notified of your name change.
Doctors
Dentists
Insurance Providers
Therapists
Counselors
Personal Legal Documents
Think of end-of-life documents and other legal declarations.
Life Insurance
Extraneous Care Plans
Estate Planning Documents